Have you ever considered working with a matchmaker in Switzerland? As a successful single, divorced, or widowed man, you don’t have much time and energy to look for interesting matches or to go to places where you could potentially find your amazing partner. You want to find a classy, smart woman who will share your life values and ambitions, and yet you feel lost.
The modern dating game has changed, and endless swiping on dating apps doesn’t feel right for everyone. Getting an experienced expert matchmaker to help can save you lots of precious time and energy. But where to start? Here are my top tips on finding a matchmaker in Switzerland.
Darren Was Looking for His Perfect Match
My client, Darren, was a successful banker in his late 50s. He moved to Switzerland from the United States over a decade ago. He had divorced several years earlier and had been searching for a new partner since then.
Like many of my single gentlemen clients, Darren didn’t have trouble getting dates online. Handsome and accomplished, his dating app profile attracted many ladies.
Unfortunately, many of those women did not meet his criteria. He wanted a cosmopolitan, highly educated lady who could easily fit into his international lifestyle. Elegance and beauty, as well as life vision and values were important too, of course.
Benefits of Matchmaking for Single Men
If you are accomplished and successful in all areas of your life, it’s only natural to be selective in your partner search. After all, you should have high expectations when you’re looking for a person with whom you will hopefully spend the rest of your life.
Working with a matchmaker in Switzerland means that after having taken the time to really get to know and understand you, your matchmaker will do all the important leg work for you:
- You won’t have to go through the tedious searching, pre-selecting, screening, and interviewing process on your own.
- You will not have to swipe through thousands of profiles.
- You won’t have all these chat conversations that don’t go anywhere.
- You won’t go on disappointing dates, many of which are simply a waste of time.
Instead, your matchmaker will present you with a few hand-selected, compatible candidates. When you both wish to meet, your matchmaker even coordinates the entire date for you.
My database of potential matches consists of carefully chosen single women whom I have personally screened and interviewed. I have a large network as I provide dating group coaching, online dating workshops and live events for single professional women in Switzerland.
This guarantees the best possible match according to your needs and preferences. No more trial and error and wasting your time on dates that lead to nowhere!
How To Choose the Best Matchmaker
Finding a professional matchmaker can transform your life, so make sure to choose wisely. The dating industry is not heavily regulated, so you need to be extra careful with whom you invest your money and your time.
Here’s what you should pay attention to, based on my 18 years of experience as a matchmaker in Switzerland:
Matchmaker’s Track Record
In the dating industry, experience and connections are everything. Finding a professional with a proven track record in matchmaking is key to success.
Matchmakers who are graduates of professional, science-based trainings and are certified by the Global Love Institute (previously called the Matchmaking Institute) have a plus.
Discretion and Strong Ethical Standards
My matchmaking gentlemen clients are often highly accomplished C-Suite managers, successful entrepreneurs, or public figures. A good matchmaker understands your need for privacy and works with the utmost discretion.
As a matchmaker in Switzerland, I am a member of and certified by the Global Love Institute. I conduct my business in accordance with the matchmaker’s code of ethics. Of course, I only work with clients who are 100% serious about, committed to, and available to finding their life partner or spouse.
Personal Contact
The search for love is one of the most personal things you will ever do. And for that you want a personal touch from your matchmaker and dating expert.
Bigger matchmaking agencies offer attractive packages, but very often, you don’t get that personal guidance from the expert matchmaker. Multiple people or more junior employees will often manage your “account.”
In a high-end, boutique approach, I don’t treat my clients as “accounts.” I only work with a handful of gentlemen clients per year. This guarantees that I personally provide you with all the services, support, and guidance you need to succeed and that I personally vet and hand-select all your matches for you.
More Than Just Getting Dates
Why do some men find a partner quickly while others struggle? In my 18 years as an international matchmaker in Switzerland, I noticed that most men, even those super attractive and successful, have blind spots and make common dating mistakes.
The world has changed, and women have the freedom to set their own standards. And those standards are as high as yours. Nice looks and good quality of life is not enough to attract the right lady into your life.
You want to find a partner who wants to be with you for who you are, not for what you have or represent. And so does she! She needs to feel you’re going to be her partner on equal terms.
In my matchmaking process, whilst we are searching, screening, and interviewing potential matches, our clients always benefit from a full dating coaching process:
- We clarify your key values necessary to build a happy relationship.
- We identify the red flags in dating.
- We overcome limiting beliefs that get in your way to happiness.
- You learn or update the dating and relationship skills you need to succeed so that once you have met that special person, you have what it takes to build the happy, lasting relationship you desire.
Real Success Rate
When Darren came to me for matchmaking, he was skeptical. He had had a bad experience with an agency in the past.
“All they did was organize the agreed number of dates for me. But the women they chose mostly didn’t meet my criteria. I was disappointed and felt like I wasted my time and money,” he told me.
The agency he joined boasted a high success rate. So, what went wrong? The secret lies in the definition of the success rate for a matchmaker!
Most dating or matchmaking services define their success rates as getting the client an X number of dates in their contractual time or by whether they had a good first date. That’s it.
In my work, a successful client is the one who is in a happy relationship by the time his contract ends! Now that makes a difference!
Unlike other matchmaking agencies that arrange dates, but by the end of the membership, you are still in the same situation as when you got started – single … minus the financial investment – my goal is to see you succeed. To help you find the right lady to build a happy, mutually fulfilling, long term, committed, exclusive relationship.
Take Control of Your Love Life Today
Finding and choosing the right woman to share your life with is no small feat. Hiring a top matchmaker in Switzerland will get you there faster, and without unnecessary drama along the way.
For Darren, it took about four months of dating to find the lady who is today his wife. He told me that, in contrast to his previous experiences, he had enjoyed dating because it was a growth process where he learned a lot about himself and up-leveled his dating and relationship skills. He told me all the ladies he met through my matchmaking were smart, classy, and beautiful.
Message me to arrange a complimentary consultation and learn how working with me as your matchmaker can transform your personal life.
